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A mind full of questions and a teacher in my soul, and so it goes...

I am compassionate, smart, and hopefully as witty as I believe myself to be. I care deeply about my "causes", which is reflected in my work in the field of domestic violence, my commitment to anti-oppression work, and my deep love for animals. I strive to stay positive & grateful. Although I think deeply, I laugh a lot & live my life with lightness. I have been vegetarian for more than 25 years.

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildA few extra pounds
Height168 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorLight brown
Hair LengthShort
Best featureSmile
Body ArtVisible tattoo
Health ConditionNo problems

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateMaybe
Have PetsDog, Bird
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
SpecialtyOther
Employment StatusPart-time
Job TitleMFT Psychotherapist, private practice & agency

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesDocumentaries, Dramas, Movies, Re-runs
Favorite TV showsI love some of the HBO & Showtime series - True Blood, Dexter, Weed, to name a few. I loved Six Feet Under & Big Love. I'm a Joss Whedon fan & have all of Buffy & Firefly on DVD.
Favorite movies typesAction, Science fiction, Drama, Documentary
Favorite moviesFight Club, The Princess Bride, Pulp Fiction to name a few.
Music typesRock, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Latin, Reggae, Folk
Favorite artistsLately, Eddie Vedder, Joanna Newsome, Blame Sally, Mana', ... too many to name!
Reading selectionFiction, Philosophy, Satire, Science
Favorite books"God of Small Things" by Arundati Roy. I read lots in "the field" - "Buddha's Brain" by Rick Hanson, "The Fall" by Steve Taylor. For lighter fun, I read everything by Barbara Kingsolver & Tom Robbins.
Idea of funKeeping things low-key. Going to movies, having friends over for dinner, playing Texas Hold-em, playing the ukulele...
HobbiesReading, Learning, Music, TV, Movies, Internet, Games, Dining, Photography, Religion, spirituality, Travel, Cooking, Playing cards

Personality

SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorObservant
Friends describe asGoofy
In High School I was a(n)Brain
Sense of humorClever
My great timeHanging out with friends, Staying at home, Trying new things, The movies, Relaxing, Reading a book, TV, Going to a concert, Going to a museum
Always wanted to try...doing more outdoor activities. I've turned into such a city girl - have only ridden my bike on city streets, for example.

Views

Political viewsVery liberal
ReligionDaoist
Attend religious servicesOnce a month
Goal in lifeTo stay on my path & help others along the way. To stay happy, grateful & open-hearted.

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Wit, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partnerIntelligent humor & deep wittiness is important. In a partner, I hope for someone who is light-hearted, trusting & trustworthy, & cares about some of same things I do. I hope for someone who is interested in equal partnership. Must be a non-smoker. If you're a vegetarian & a Joss Whedon fan, extra points!
On the first dateFor a first date, I prefer a very low-pressure meeting at a coffee shop or park - a place to really meet & have a conversation rather than a distraction. The distraction can be the 2nd date...