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writer, scholar, beach lover

I have a daily practice of reading contemplative literature and meditating. I love how it keeps my perspective fresh and keeps me open to life's experiences. I am tenured scholar who researches and writes on the arts and public culture. I love life music, travel, good food and wine, and warm, open conversations.

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Appearance

EthnicityBlack
National heritageAmerican
BuildAthletic / toned
Height165 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShort
Best featureLips
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo special Health Conditions

Situation

Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenOne
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsWith kid(s)
Wants to RelocateMaybe
Have PetsCat
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Doctorate
SpecialtyArt / Music / Literature
Employment StatusFull-time
Job TitleAssociate Professor

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesDocumentaries, Movies, Sports
Favorite TV showsI don't watch TV much at all.
Favorite movies typesDrama, Documentary, Thriller, Adult
Music typesCountry, Rap, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Latin, Soul, Reggae, Gospel, Folk, Punk
Reading selectionAnthology, Auto-biography, Biography, Classic, Fiction, History, Humor, Nature, Philosophy, Poetry, I'm an author
HobbiesMusic, Internet, Games, Dining, Photography, Theater, Travel, Cooking

Personality

SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorOutgoing
Friends describe asFriendly
In High School I was a(n)Brain
Sense of humorRaunchy
My great timeHanging out with friends, Partying, Trying new things, Playing dress-up, Going to a concert, Going to a museum
Always wanted to tryMy favorite things to do are to travel and to explore new neighborhoods. I love to explore!

Views

Political viewsGreen party
ReligionBuddhist
Attend religious servicesOnce a month
Goal in lifeTo write well and about things that are meaningful
To continue to expand my capacity to love and accept others
To enjoy my life no matter the circumstances
To be creative, adventurous, and fearless about living my life

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partnerI am looking for a mature, intelligent, creative and engaging man who is emotionally generous and financially responsible. Flexibility and good communication skills are also important to me.

I am interested in someone who has a spiritual practice, who is open-minded, curious, and grounded.
On the first dateI'm totally casual. Meeting at a cafe or a bar for a good chat would be a good start.