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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageGerman
BuildAverage
Height160 cm
Eye ColorGreen
Hair ColorBrown
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo special Health Conditions

Situation

Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith pet(s)
Wants to RelocateMaybe
Have PetsCat
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyArt / Music / Literature
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual income$50,000 - $100,000
Job TitleTechnical writer and tech pubs manager

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesNews, Documentaries, Movies, Science fiction
Favorite TV showsAnything science related, Nova, The Daily Show, Colbert Report, My Cat from Hell, Dr. Who, Downton Abbey
Favorite movies typesComedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Animation
Favorite moviesNot much of a movie fan
Music typesClassical, New age, Ambient
Reading selectionAuto-biography, Biography, Classic, Mystery, Philosophy, Science
Favorite booksAnything by Shakespeare, Harry Potter, The Elegant Universe, Zero: A Dangerous Idea, A Theory of Everything
Idea of funI don't have predefined ideas about this because many things can be fun if you're open to new ideas.
HobbiesArts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Music, Dancing, Family, Religion, spirituality, Cooking, Gardening, Volunteering

Personality

SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorObservant
Friends describe asFriendly
In High School I was a(n)Quiet one
Sense of humorClever
My great timeHanging out with friends, Staying at home, Trying new things, Going to a concert, Going to a museum

Views

Political viewsMiddle of the road
Goal in lifeTo continue stretching the boundaries of my own consciousness, to contribute to the world in a conscious and positive way

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partnerA spiritual teacher once said that it took years to know whether someone is trustworthy or not. That statement stunned me and made me wonder how trustworthy I was. As I reflected on what trustworthiness is, I became more and more aware of this quality in myself and in others. “Trustworthiness is a moral value considered to be a virtue.” A virtue—versus a quality—is a behavior of exemplary value. So this has become a guiding light in my world: both for myself and for others. It’s a quality that must be the foundation of any intimate relationship. Thus, this is a key quality that I seek in another; so what I want in others, I demand in myself.

Other qualities important to me are the desire to continually learn and develop depth of character and personal growth. These are inherent qualities in myself without trying, so I seek another who understands them.

I know and want the very special quality and richness that only intimate partners can bring to each other’s lives. No other relationship is capable of knowing us so completely, to know our foibles and vulnerabilities. It’s within this special relationship container where we cannot hide our self-delusions. Thus, if open to it, it’s where each partner can learn and deepen their relationship more than any other way.
On the first dateNo predefined ideas. It's qualities in the person that is important, not what we do.