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Light-Hearted, Lovely and Looking

Beauty is not in the face; beauty is a light in the heart. Kahlil Gibran (1883 - 1931)

I'm looking for a friend, a spiritual companion and heartful lover. You’re looking for a woman who is attractive, intelligent, perhaps professional, accomplished, financially stable, emotionally mature and spiritually developed, right? AND:
• What if I’m really a beauty from the inside out? Will you see me?
• What if I’m bright, delightfully curious, and stimulating? You’re smart enough to know its valuable, and still keep it in a healthy perspective, right?
• What if I’m spiritually eclectic, philosophical, and love quantum physics? Are you open to exploring what’s really ‘out there’ with me.
• What if I’m intuitive, insightful and like to connect-the-dots? You’re good with my ‘getting it’, even if I say it first?
• What if I’m able to see you as wondrously perfect at heart, soul and spirit? Are you comfortable seeing yourself as perfect at these levels too?
• What if I’m sensitive, sensual, love to touch and explore? Will your kind gentleness lead, no matter wherever our dance to abandon goes?

If you are sincerely ok with my 'what ifs', please keep reading…

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Situation

Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenOne
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Wants to RelocateYes
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
Employment StatusRetired

Leisure & Fun

Favorite TV showsI generally watch only news, PBS, documentaries, and movies.
Favorite movies typesScience fiction, Comedy, Romance, Documentary, Thriller
Favorite moviesOut of Africa, Sleepless in Seattle, Remains of the Day, Shadowlands, and chick flicks of course, mysteries, too.
Music typesClassical
Favorite artistsopera singers, the classic musicians, cellist- Pablo Casals, sculptors and painters, from Michaelangelo to picasso
Favorite booksspiritual, quantum anything, philosophy, cooking
Idea of fungetting out in nature, camping, a quiet read, sunrises and sunsets, snuggling by a fire, dancing, singing, a workshop
HobbiesReading, Movies, Dancing, Theater, Cooking, Gardening, Volunteering

Personality

SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingDon't drink
Social behaviorFriendly
Friends describe asFriendly
My great timeHanging out with friends, Trying new things, The movies, Relaxing, Reading a book, Going to a concert, Going to a museum
Always wanted to tryI have been privileged to do what I have desired generally. I have skydived, snorkeled, skied, camped, traveled, lived abroad, highbrowed and hungout. I'd enjoy a Nile cruise, Nepal, and to experience vaipassana.

Views

Political viewsLiberal
ReligionBuddhist
Attend religious servicesOnce a week
Goal in lifeTo be a Solar Presence, to be the change... I finally figured out what the yogis are doing up in their Himalayan caves -- they are beyond meditation, they emanate. Light is the key.

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partnerIn a word, a gentleman. One who honors his women, really loves himself, and values kindness. Good communication skills and active intelligence are very important, as is being able to express your feminine side. Be generous-spirited, grateful for life and sport a positive mental attitude. Have a little sense of humor, and have an equilibrium about yourself, as well as the world situation. Enjoy learning and appreciate refinement on many levels.

Be committed to a spiritual practice and be willing to work together on dissolving personal boxes, like dualism - judgments, labels, contrasts and resistance. Be self-observant and maybe even enthusiastic about self improvement, even if I'm occasionally the messenger. And be willing to help me to grow.

Of course, I'll love your good looks, your fit, trim and healthy lifestyle, and your love of healthy food and moderate exercise. Let's lift each other up. Help me stay fit, too. Let's grow in love and in lovemaking.

Please admit your stuff. Accept change, and do your personal work. Avoid feelings of competition at every turn, avoid guilt trips and having to be 'right'. I'd love a partner who is conscious, not just conscientious.

I know what it feels like to grow to admire you beyond your wildest dreams, beyond your personality and form. And its bliss.
On the first dateJust lunch or dinner in a quiet place, and an opportunity to talk a lot and giggle a little, and maybe even play a bit. I'd consider horseback riding, and I've never miniature golfed. If a movie, only a great one with time to talk about it after.