Short term, I am open to possibilities and enjoy meeting great guys. To me a great guy is someone who I not only find physically attractive, but also who is kind, a great conversationalist, supportive and just plain fun to be with. Long-term (I suppose) like most I am looking for "the one". I just believe in having fun in the process. I know that the best long-term match for me would be spiritual and definitely not narcissistic, i.e. capable and demonstrative of empathy. He's be a non-drinker and non-smoker (like me) and probably a fine communicator. I tend to like tall guys who can make me laugh. A self-depricating sense of humor is probably my biggest weakness.